
Have you ever wondered what it feels like to have s*xual intercourse
with your partner after child delivery? Couples and enthusiasts will
find this article very helpful.
For most women, s ex is the last thing in their minds after they’ve just have a baby.
The cares of a newborn, the agony of delivery, bleeding, lactation and
other issues that go with child delivery are sometimes so unsettling
that new mothers don’t want to add s ex to the list.
However, for many women, by the sixth week after delivery, they are
prepared to have s*x, especially if their men are getting impatient with
the sudden celibacy.
But then, what does s ex look like after child delivery?
S ex can hurt
Traumatic birth, episiotomy, stitches, surgery and a pelvic floor
weakened by nine months of pregnancy can all make s*x painful for months
or even years after delivery. Postnatal hormones can also cause a bit
of dryness in the vaginal canal. You may need to see the doctor.
Fear of pregnancy
Gynaecologists say contrary to the erroneous counselling that exclusive
breastfeeding prevents pregnancy, you can get pregnant immediately after
delivery if you are ovulating and you have s ex.
S ex drive may disappear altogether
Even for some women who may desire to have s ex not long after delivery,
they may discover to their horror that their libido is low, courtesy of
the hormone changes that took place during the pregnancy period. If
this happens, relax and gradually work at it.
Breasts can leak milk when aroused
If you’re breastfeeding, the same hormone that helps with milk flow can
be released when you’re aroused. This may lead to leaking during s ex.
You and your spouse must get used to it!
Your man’s s ex drive can slow down
Your man’s s ex drive can slow down
Contrary to the belief that men are always raving to go, sometimes the
birth of their baby can make a man experience lower testosterone,
leading to a drop in libido. He needs time to get his bearing.
Having s ex with baby in the room
While the baby has absolutely no idea of what’s going on, it sometimes
feels weird, especially if that’s your first child. You’re used to being
alone in the room, but you now have a third party! Sometimes in the
middle of the game, you baby wants to suck! The two of you must learn to
figure things out!
The bottom line: Read books and magazines on pregnancy, child delivery
and post-natal s ex. All these should give you a fair idea of what to
expect and how to navigate it.
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