A man has written to Funmi Akingbade – a relationship and s*x therapist
as well as a columnist for Punch newspaper, and she gave him the best
secret ever!
How can I improve my oral sex skills?
I am a husband with keen interest in giving my wife a good oral s*x, but
I lack the skill and courage. Is there a better way to go about it? –
Christopher Silvanus.
Below is the reponse he got from the therapist;
Think about something you excel at and chances are, you rock it because
you really enjoy doing it. The same goes for giving great oral sex. The
best way to be great at oral sex is to learn to like it. Or at least act
like you do. That will help her feel more comfortable and then you will
find you actually do enjoy it.
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The biggest mistake husbands make when performing oral sex is going
straight for the wife’s genitals. Don’t dive right in like it’s a
pounded yam-eating contest!
She’s
not warmed up yet and it might even hurt her if she’s not aroused. The
best thing to do is to tease her and draw out the experience before you
even start going down. Plant kisses on her abdomen and thighs. Use your
hands to gently massage the area surrounding her vagina to heighten her
anticipation.
When you finally do make contact, start off slowly with slight licks and
gentle caresses to warm her up. Use both the tip and flat part of your
tongue to flick and lick. Women tend to prefer circular motions, but
experiment with different speeds and pressure, and pay attention to how
she responds.
If you’re feeling adventurous, try tracing the alphabet with your
tongue, or lightly humming to create a slight vibrating sensation. You
can also throw your fingers into the mix to try a little G-spot
stimulation along with your tongue. As she gets closer to climax, keep
doing exactly what you’re doing.
Once she’s had her Big O, return to the gentle kisses around her outer
labia and thighs before popping your head up to experience the praise
for your hard work.
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