– She claims that women who
experience poor libido through the FGM are wasting their time sleeping
with men who will not satisfy them
– The ex-governor’s daughter advises that women use s ex toys in order to get maximum satisfaction in bed
Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo, the outspoken daughter of a former governor of
Oyo state, Victor Omololu-Olunloyo, has revealed why she has not been
enjoying s ex.
Olunloyo, known for her straightforward comments on social issues, told
IBTimes UK during a recent interview that few African women (especially
Nigerians) are willing to speak about their experiences with Female
Genital Mutilation (FGM) which she claims is one of the reasons some of
them have poor libido and urge for mating.
She has therefore advised such affected individuals to use s ex toys in
order to get maximum satisfaction rather than sleep with men who are not
likely to satisfy them.
“There was no anaesthetic and a
sharp razor blade was used. I remember my sister and I screaming
afterwards. We went home bleeding in diapers and, for a week, it was
like we were little girls with menstrual periods. My mom was bathing us
and diapering us. Deep down, mom was not happy for some reason.
“After years of resentment towards
her mother, I finally confronted her in 2012. She burst into tears
telling me that our late paternal grandmother ordered my dad to have us
do it.
“This tradition is over
70-years-old. Our grandmother was a traditional Muslim woman who
dictated many rules to her young son, my dad.
“Some women and girls, who undergo
FGM, have their entire genitalia cut and “sewn closed.” My genitalia
were only partially removed, meaning I did not experience difficulties
while giving birth, however, the psychological and physical consequences
of the mutilation still linger in my life.
“Calling it an operation is nothing.
It was a cultural barbaric act used to decrease the female libido. It
caused me post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) for life.
“I don’t experience org asm during s
ex and when I tried to promote the use of s ex toys among Nigerian
women, men started attacking me saying I was discouraging African women
‘from the real thing’.
“S ex is not important. I have no
libido or urge to have s ex and I’ve been celibate for 10 years.
Millions of women in Nigeria go through this, but they cannot talk or be
outspoken like me. It is shameful and a disgrace to them.
“Many women say they fake org asms
and others have husbands who go out to prostitutes and girlfriends. FGM
has destroyed marriages here.
“My message to girls who have been
through it is to stay strong and get into support groups. Its better to
educate girls about s ex education the right way, instead of cutting
part of their genitals off causing a lifelong traumatic problem,” Olunloyo cried out.
This revelation is coming just days after the controversial feminist
slammed immediate past Imo state governor, Chief Ikedi Ohakim, for
saying the nation’s economy was ‘HIV positive’ before President
Muhammadu Buhari’s administration.
She took to her twitter page to air her views on the statement made by Ohakim calling him a disgrace and an insensitive leader.
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